Manners Ethics Religion

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim……

Prolegomena ....

Praise be to Allah who created us , then refine it ; educate us , and gives splendor , and glorify us by sending Muhammad , his Messenger . By pleading his instructions , we say that :

Morals of the most perfect and the most high , most great charity and the good , is ethics in religion followed by those who believe follow the work of the Lord of the Universe and of the character of the Prophet and Messenger of God .

God has educated us with a variety of explanations written in the Koran . He educates us through the guidance of His Prophet , Muhammad , the Sunnah , the obligations imposed on us . Because of this , everything belongs to Him pleasure .

Similarly, through the friends , the tabi'ien , and the generation after them , the civilized people of the people of faith who require us to follow them .

Ethics in religion a very important position and the number is too many . Therefore , here we will only partly be explained so that the discussion does not beat around the bush , so it is difficult to understand.

Ethics believer in the Face of God

A believer should always lowered his eyes and focused all his attention only to God . Familiarize silent and calm the limbs . Hasten to carry out orders , away from the ban , do not like to argue and good morals . Familiarize remembrance and purify the mind . Control the limbs and soothing.

Exalts the greatness of God , away from angry nature , and hide love . Maintain sincerity. Not riya and show off . Mendakwah truth . Not referring to the creature and mengikhlaskan charity . Telling the truth , and seek to purify view approach to Allah ( taqarrub ) continuously . Not much ruled , hide virtues and eager to improve. Illicit angry when violated , perpetuating haybah ( reluctance to the authority of God ) , creates a sense of shame , and feel fear ( Allah ) . Making inner poise as confidence and trust as a good awareness of the effort .

Perfecting the ablution when feeling heavy and wait ( again ) next prayer after doing a prayer . Heart trembled for fear of leaving fard . Familiarize repent for sinful fear , and maintaining faith in the unseen . Hearts feel fear when the remembrance and increase light when receiving advice . Develop an attitude of resignation when poor and when it is able to dispense alms without miserly attitude .

The Ethics Educated

Ethics, among others, is a learned man should constantly seek knowledge and practice it. Maintaining tranquility. Leaving arrogant nature and not provoke him. Seekers of love and do not respond to people who are arrogant. Resolving the problem lay people and do not feel proud to say, "I do not know." Giving serious attention over a pertaanyaan. Do not pretend. And pay attention to the truth and accept an argument, although derived from the opponent.

Ethics in the Face of A Student Teacher

A pupil - in the presence of his teacher - should start each meeting with the salutation, not much to say in front of him, stood up when he stood and said, "So and so said something different to what you say." Not to ask friends when sitting in before him. Not laugh when the teacher is talking. Not express opinions that are contrary to his opinion. Not holding his shirt when he stood up. Not asking for an explanation of a problem on the way to get to her house. And not a lot to ask ketka she looks bored.

Ethics Teacher Teacher Koran (Muqrie)

Ethics teacher, a teacher of the Qur'an, among others, is always sitting like a frightened his seat, listening to commands, trying to understand, and always hope of His love. Noting mutashabihat verses, the sign of waqf, know the signs of the beginning of the reading, explain the particulars of the letter hamzah, teaches numbers, letters and smarten pronunciation. Describe the benefits and rewards of completing recitation of the Qur'an.

He also loves the beginner must learn the Koran. Wondering if there are students who do not attend. Leaving the debate. Starting with teaching reading that is read when praying, or - if necessary - lead the others.

Ethics Koran Readers

A reader of the Quran , you should get used to sitting in front of his seat the Koran as humble ' . Focusing . Bowed his head , and asked permission before reading . Seek refuge in Allah and pray and read basmalah when finished reading the Koran .

Ethics Teaching Children

Ethics teaching such children is to start with self-improvement , as their eyes and ears directed towards him . something good according to him , would be good also for them , and nothing bad in his opinion, would be ugly in their eyes anyway . Familiarize silent when sitting . And did not look angry with his views . Should, most of the teaching is done with effort ' scare ' not hit and especially torture .

Not a lot of conversing with them , because they will be brave . Do not let them chatting , because they would be cheeky . Not invite anyone frolic in front of them . Refused to take them with wira'i . Prevent them from pitting or inciting attitude and avoid them from searching disgrace others . Teach them that it's ugly gossip . Invite them to fear the actions lie and provocation . Do not ask a matter that happened to them , so that weighs on him . Not a lot of demands on their families , so they dictate . Teach them about the purification and prayer . And inform them about the unclean - unclean to be removed .

Hadith narrators Ethics

Ethics narrators of hadith is to be aimed properly, avoid falsehood, delivering the famous hadith, narrated hadith from people you trust and leave the evil hadith. Not convey what is happening among the ancient scholars. Know the times. Keep away from mistakes, errors, read errors and irregularities.

Leaving pranks, avoiding incitements and ingratitude towards God because he has been at the level of the Prophet as a transmitter of hadith. Maintaining a humble attitude 'and make the most of what he says useful for the Muslims, both in the form of the obligatory, sunnah and their manners in explaining the book of Allah Almighty.

Not bring his knowledge to the ministers (government officials) and not come to the door of the ruler, because it would undermine the credibility of the scholars and degrade the quality of the science they teach it to mean when the rulers and the rich. Not narrated things unknown origin and not read anything that is not in his book. Not say when any one menbacakan something to him. Be careful not to mix the hadith in another hadith.

Searchers Ethics Hadith

Always write hadiths famous and not write hadiths peculiar, not also write hadiths evil. Quoting hadith from people you trust. Not overstate the famous hadith from other traditions. Quest does not diminish the honor of himself and does not neglect his prayer. Avoid gossip, silent to hear, familiarize silent in the presence of narrators and pay attention to the efforts to improve his writing. Do not say, "I have heard", but had never heard of. Not to seek fame spread hadith, hadith and quotes from people who are not trustworthy and expert lightening, but must take hadith from religious scholars. Not quoting the hadith of people who do not know the hadith that comes from pious people.

Ethics Author

A writer should always seek to beautify and smarten scratches his hand. I'rab sulking on science to explain the sentence, knowing calculations and have the correct opinion. Wearing good clothes and use perfume. Knowing the history of those who passed among neuroscientists. Taking gradually from the sources and find out the main affair. Tolerant and experienced in matters of goodness. Avoiding tyranny and away from everything unclean. Maintaining self-esteem, relationships and keep smarten themselves from humiliation. Steer clear of vile words in the assembly, avoiding amusement and conversation, and persuasion to the servants.

Ethics Advice Giver Preachers

Ethics advisory avoid them is always arrogant attitude and always maintain a sense of shame to his Lord. Always show hope to the Creator and willing to give the benefit to the audience. Corrects itself to see her shame. Looking at the audience with a view of the truth, kind thought to those with spiritual religion, and do not expect them to provide protection. Gentle teaching methods. Caring beginners. Convinced that he can carry out his words, so that others may benefit from what he said.

Listeners Ethics

A listener should always show humility and submission maintain. Purify the heart and kind thought. Believing his words and familiarize silent. Not much acting and always focused. And avoid alleges improper.

Ethics Expert Worship

Expert worship should know the moments of worship, understand reading, smarten words and trying to shed tears. Maintaining humility and familiarize submission. Lower his gaze, shook her, always thought of religion, attention and time to get used to fasting. Waking up at night, be wira'i, and reduce eating-drinking. Always wait for the arrival of death, away from her friends, leaving lust, maintain prayer - knowing the virtues and particulars that cause imperfections. Do not feel the need for other people to science, in addition to knowledge of himself and the nature of existence.

Ethics When Alone

Being an expert in jurisprudence religious issues, find out about the problems of prayer, fasting, zakat and hajj. Believes that solitude can resist evil itself. Attend every meeting and praying. Take care of the bodies and visit the sick with insoluble in their conversation. Do not ask about any of those stories that will pollute the sanctity of his heart. Not greedy to their giving, so do not feel the need for the help neighbors. Thus, the time is divided into three, namely: to pray and study, so lucky; to read the books, so educated, and to sleep so congratulations. Familiarize remembrance and gratitude multiply, so that a perfect business. If you have a family, talk with them. Indeed meant in his solitude, so that it can measure the quality of his exile.

Sufi Ethics

An expert should not be much give Sufi orders, leaving syath (artificial) in the expression, adhering to Shari'a sciences, familiarize hard working, sincere and not too familiar with humans. Leaving popularity in dress and reveal the beauty, attitude of resignation, chose poverty, familiarize remembrance and love to hide. Sellu attempt to smarten the quality of the association. Keeping away from homosexual and lesbian behavior, and constantly studying the Koran.

People Majesty Ethics

Always maintain the glory, not manipulate aspects of heredity, not relying on the effort, and fear their Lord. Caring people beneath it. And not trying to match the equivalent to her.

Though scientists know her virtue or higher level than those in the scientific problem. Following the people who understand the religion of the Koran and Islamic jurists. Forge character. Keeping his words when angry and preaching. Glorifying friend sitting. Connecting fraternity. Protecting relatives. Helping neighbors. And decorate her friends with her virtue.

Sleeping Ethics

Always purification before going to bed. Sleep on the right hand side of the body. Remembrance to Allah Almighty to sleep. Pray and praise God when waking from sleep.

Prayers Ethics Tahajud

Reduce eating and drinking. Adorn the time of day to avoid gossip, lying and utterances that are not beneficial. Leaving the views of the forbidden things. Wake up from sleep with a sense of fear. Fixing ablution, looking to the sky kingdom, pray and bring hearts in prayer in order to understand the reading.

Entering Ethics Outhouse

Let someone was reading basmalah and seek refuge in Allah (isti'adzah) before he entered the lavatory. Gently undressed after squatting. Rub hands on the ground after beristinja with water. Close the genitals before exiting the outhouse. Read Hamdallah and grateful after coming out of the latrine.

Ethics Entering Bathroom

Close the genitals and tried not to look at her nakedness. Seeking solitude, do not say anything, not looking away to the right or to the left, do not say hello and sit with ease.

Washing the genitals (when it is a big ritual impurity) before entering the bathroom and wash your feet with cold water when out, because it can eliminate headaches.

Ethics ablution

Remembrance while cleansing his teeth and familiarize members of the ablution wash. The Intended feel reverence to Him and repent of all sin. Silence after purification to enter the prayer time. Purification is done after shaving, underarm hair and pubic hair, as well as cut nails. Washing between fingers, clean the nostrils and clean clothes and body.

Ethics Entering Mosque

Running start with the right foot, removes impurities from the slippers, the name of Allah 'Azza wa Jalla and saluted those who had been present beforehand. If the mosque is empty, give greetings to yourself. Pleading with God that opened the doors of His mercy.

Sit facing the Qiblah, attach muraqabah functions (control of God over yourself), reducing speak and avoid talking loudly. Not Raising his voice in the mosque and no sword. When carrying a sword, hold the stem. Do not do the job, look for the lost object, buying and selling, and copulating.

If out of the mosque, precedence left leg and pleading with God to the primacy of his gifts.

Ethical Conduct I'tikaf

Always dhikr, focus, avoid talking, always stay in place and not moving. Abstinence from what is desired, rejecting pleasure lust and force him to obey Allah 'Azza wa Jalla.

Ethical public call to prayer

A muezzin really ought to know prayer times, both during the summer and winter. Subjecting eyes when climbing the tower azan. Turning to the right and to the left in the call to prayer when saying "Hayya 'ala as-Salah and Hayya' ala al-Falah" and would enhance and accelerate reading reading azan iqamat.

Imam ethics

A priest should know the pillars of prayer and some Sunnah . Understand the things that can undo and destroy his prayer . Not being a priest for a people who do not like him . Making the row behind him is a science experts . Ask them to straighten their ranks and counseled gently . Do not read long letters , so they are weary ; does not lengthen the rosary , so they get bored ; nor relieve it , so that the lost perfection of prayer . Instead set the prayer according to the capacity of the weakest among them .

Perfecting the bowing and prostration , so that they feel comfortable ( tuma'ninah ) , silent for a moment before and after the reading of al - Fatihah , and also when finished reading the papers afterwards . Waiting people who find it difficult in the bowing , as long as does not exceed the reasonable yan . Waiting neighbors have not been dating long yan not fear the end the right time . Stop for a moment between the two regards . When finished praying , hoping for the gift of God with hope fear . Multiply gratitude to God and to His remembrance maintain in all circumstances.

ethics Prayer

A Muslim man who was about to perform the prayer , should be humble , maintain humility and humiliation reveal . Bringing the heart , relieve anxiety and avoidance of doubt , both physically and spiritually .

Soothe limbs , bowed his head and put his right hand over his left hand . Live readings with full reverence . Doing bowing with full submission, prostrate with full humility , with full exaltation hymn , full testimony with the shahadah , and greeted with great affection . End the prayer with fear and seek His good pleasure .

Ethics Reading the Koran

Let familiarize themselves with poise and a sense of shame . Stay away from worthless things and vile words . Maintaining a humble attitude and get used to cry .

Pray ethics

Should bring humility in the heart , focus , revealing humiliation , kind thought , humble themselves , and reveal attitudes need . Petition pleading to God as a drowning man to the person who can save him . Knowing her lowly position and magnitude of the majesty of God as a pleading . Waving both hands when pleading . Convinced that do'anya will be granted and the fear of the things that bring failure . Always waiting for spaciousness and avoid hostility . Smarten purpose and hope . Rub your palms to face when you're done praying .

Friday prayer Ethics

Allow time to prepare before arriving Friday prayers. Immediately purification before entering the time. Bath and wearing clean clothes. Not stepping nape others. Avoiding conversation and reproduce remember. Taking a seat near the Imam and listen to what the preacher. After completion of prayer, runs back (on earth) to seek knowledge and runs quietly. Not entwined fingers. Shortening step, familiarize tractable, and multiply thanks to the Almighty Giver of sustenance substance. Entering the mosque with humility and say hello. Trying not to pray after sitting the preacher in the pulpit. Answering greeting given by the pastor. Refrain from talking, determined to accept the lesson, and do not turn away when faced with the pastor and preach to him. Not perform the prayer before the priest came down from the pulpit and before the muezzin echoes iqamah completed.

An Ethics Khatib

The preacher ought come to the mosque with calm and dignity. Starting sermon with greeting and sat with the fear with reverence to God . Shy away from the conversation while waiting for the time to arrive . Stepping to the podium calmly , as if he wanted to show his words to the substance , the Mighty . Climbed the rostrum with a sense of humility . Holding on to the banister and climbed to the top of the pulpit while chanting . Looked to the audience by concentrating and say hello to them as a sign that they pay attention to his sermon . Sitting listening to the call to prayer with a sense of fear of the Almighty substances .

Began preaching with humble attitude ' and not gesturing with a finger . Convinced that useful words . Hinted to the audience to pray . then down from the pulpit to the accompaniment iqomat chanted by the muezzin . Not Takbir before the congregation fell silent . Starting prayers and smarten reading.

Ethics in the Feast

Turning night feast ( with takbir , tahlil and tahmid ) and a shower in the morning . Cleanse the body and wear fragrances . Constantly reciting Takbir , reproduce remembrance , familiarize humility , and exalt and bertahmid on the sidelines of the takbir . Silent to listen to the sermon ' id after the feast prayers fulfilled . Eat a little before going out of the house if it is the feast of Eid . Go to the place of prayer through a road and return home through another path . Back with a sense of compassion for fear of the Substance That mighty unseen .

When Ethics in Eclipse

Maintaining a sense of fear and anxiety manifest . Immediately repent and not feel tired ( to repent ) . Rushing enforce prayer . Standing long to pray . And always maintain vigilance .

Prayers Ethics Istisqa

Let istisqo fast before praying ( praying for rain ) . Begins with repentance and avoiding unjust attitudes . Devote all your attention and does not boast . A shower before leaving the house . Familiarize dii to be silent and pay attention to everything that is forbidden . Confess your sins that bring torment and determined not to repeat it . Silent to listen to sermons , hymn on the sidelines of Takbir , reproduce forgiveness and reverse robe while praying .

Ethics of the Sick

Always remember the dead and get ready to deal with repentance . Getting used to praise and glorify God . Be humble while continuing to pray . reveal weaknesses and hope . Invoke healing and ask for help from The Giver healing substances . Gratitude manifest when there is a power and not complain . Glorifying people who accompany and do a handshake.

Ethics condolences

Be humble , show sadness and not much talking . Not smile , because it can lead to envy .

Ethics Dropping Bodies

Maintaining humility, lower his gaze and avoid conversation. Noting the deceased while taking lessons. Thinking of simulation answers to the question of angels Munkar and Nakir. Determined to hasten to meet the demands of liability. Anxious to regret all that has passed when dating death.

Ethics charity

Let gave alms before being asked. Hiding alms, both when giving and after giving. Be friendly to the requester, unhurried refused his request, and said quietly when he asked in a voice that slowly.

Avoiding curmudgeonly attitude by giving what is requested or reject it kindly. If the devil - may Allah curse him - it was whispered that the requester is not entitled to receive alms, then remember do not ever hold back what God gave him, because he is entitled to such property.

Ethics Requestor asked

Reveal the actual indigence. Delivering a request with gentle words. Receiving gifts - albeit slightly - while grateful and pray for the good. If rejected, returned with a polite and full of eagerness. Not repeating the request and not be forced.

Ethics of the Rich

Maintaining an attitude of humility, and always away from the arrogant attitude of gratitude. Using his wealth to do good. Be friendly to the poor and always receives his arrival. Answering greetings to every one who says it and does not hide wealth. Soft-spoken, be friendly, and helping others for good.

Ethics of the Poor

Poor people should maintain the attitude of receiving, concealing poverty, humiliation and appeared not grovel. Steer clear of greed, dignity and show the adequacy of the generous people of the religious scholars. Respect for rich people without expecting their kindness. Adequacy appeared to them without expecting a gift from them. Not to be arrogant and not humiliate myself. Keeping the heart when looking at them and cling to religion when watching their lives.

Ethical Gift Giving

Looking at the main attitude to people who were given a gift. Appears happiness over acceptance. Thanking you when watching the prize received. Bring yourself the gift to him, though many.

Ethics Prize

Shows excitement over the gift, though slightly. Mendo'akan gift giver if he had gone and revealed the face that glow when she is present. Replying gift when able and praised if possible. Not humble themselves before him, keeping away from the faith hence disability, and away from greed with him.

Doing Ethics Virtue

Always follow virtue before the requested start. Hasten to do as promised. Many do good. Hiding follow virtue of showy attitude. Not many gave after received his virtue. Endeavor to continue to always execute. And be wary of follow-termination.

Fasting Ethics

Finding food is lawful and good. Not aside the bickering and gossip. Avoiding false deeds, do not hurt others, and keep all limbs of moral turpitude.

In Ethics in Hajj Journey

Spending treasure well. Do good to those who brought his supply. Helping a friend. Accompany the damaged vehicle. Donated part of his lunch. Commendable moral, well-spoken, and frolic without immoral and always look for straightness.

Appears excitement when looking at fellow talk. Listening to the conversation, does not nullify his anxiety, and trying to forget his mistakes. Thanking you for your help and always glorify and help.

Ethics Ihram

Let the shower, then put on clean clothes, and wear fragrances. Take care of people who are hungry, read Talbiyah with full reverence, and raising his voice as a form of excitement because it could fulfill His call. thawaf to glorify the holy place, sa'i to seek the pleasure, and wuquf as a testimony to the Day of Judgment.

Looked masy'ar (pilgrimage place) with a view of affection, barber interpret as a symbol of freedom, and considered as a symbol of sacrificial slaughter penance. Looked stoning (Pebbles) as a form of obedience. Ziyadah tawaf regard as an unlimited view of life, and the rejection of the nature of grief. And when it's time to go home, filled with the desire to come back again.

Entering City of Mecca Ethics

Entering the Haram in Makkah exaltation and looked with sadness. Looking at the Masjid al-Haram with virtue and looked Baitullah with takbir and tahlil. Familiarize keep doing tawaf and umrah. Entering the House with his holiness exalts and familiarize themselves to repent after entering.

Entering the Medina City Ethics

Let entered the city of Medina with dignity and poise. Noting the law relating to it and look at it with glorious views. Prophet went to the mosque and pulpit, as if watching his prayer and sermon. Pilgrimage to the tomb of the Prophet, as if his personal view that noble. Speaking to him in a soft voice, as if seeing with their own eyes to friends Like the seat. Starting with a pilgrimage to his greeting.

Furthermore, say hello to two people lying beside him (Abu Bakr as-Siddiq and 'Umar Ibn al-Khattab). As well as his witness to the love of the two above. Witness his journey between them. And his response to them. Witnessing their reverence to him and they are welcome to him. And if you want to step away from his grave, do not with to him.

Ethics Traders

A trader should not sit on the street where the passage of the Muslims, so that will narrow down their motion. He must employ adult children who do not apply in the unjust measure and does not reduce the scales; told him that's not perfect dose haste in weighing. The accuracy of the scales coin like two wings of a bird and as balance scales, long thread, the exact direction of the needle, swing clear, and balanced weight.

On each day, before the start of trading activity, he should check the scales and clean up the rest. Instruct workers in the proper measure for oil. If the noble people who come, glorify. When the neighbors came, priority. If the coming of the weak, have mercy. And when they were come apart, do is fair. Sell ​​merchandise at a price that is fitting: if low price, undoubtedly many customers. But if expensive, undoubtedly little customers.

At the time of waiting on merchandise, let strives continuously to assess the Koran. Lower his gaze from the forbidden things of youth and flawless. Do not buy merchandise at a low price from a foolish spender. Not rebuke the beggar. And do not prohibit a buyer to bid.

If he is the one who is able to take care of their own problems, then surely he is better able to deal with problems that must be carried out workers. He had to buy a scale, size, and dosing of the people who are already known reliable. When selling merchandise, he should not be praised and when to buy it, should not be reproached. When offering the goods, he must offer the truth. Avoiding bad said when asked for a reduction in the price of goods, and not to tell lies while transacting. Minimize interaction with the citizens of the market, and not a lot of joking. As well as to guard against many invites hostility.

Money changers Ethics

A money exchanger should have good faith and is able to fulfill the mandate. Caution against usury and hasten money paid credit. Not giving money bad. Perfecting the scales and do not intend to deceive. Always check the balance sheet for fear of reduced measuring accuracy.

Ethics Builders Gold

Let the work with sincerity and earnest in generosity. Not slow down the work, keeping promises, and do not exceed the limits set in the value of wages.

Ethical Eating

Let always wash your hands before and after eating. Start by reading basmalah. Eating starts from people who are on the right side first, then the next person. Discouraging bribery and refine the cud. Did not see the face of a friend who was eating. Not eating while reclining. Not eating when feeling full. Let give the exact reason when full, thus making the shy guests or people who require more food. Started taking food from the plate and does not start from the middle. Lick fingers when finished eating and reading hamdalah. Do not talk about death so as not to agitate the audience.

Ethics Drink

Let look into a glass before drinking it. Reading the previous basmalah and utter hamdalah afterwards. A sip of water and drank it. Breathing when drinking three times, followed by reading and reading basmalah hamdalah when they wanted to drink it again.

No drinking while standing. Offered a drink to another, if there is someone else with him.

Ethics When Interlocking Male Married

A man wishing to marry should first find a good religious woman, and beautiful, and rich - if you want it. Do not make an agreement over a given pa., And not hide it. Do not apply for women who are already spoken for by others. Not hold a wedding reception that accompanied the things that can keep away from the Lord, and humiliating him. Not sitting alone (with his wife) when there are other people who see it. And do not kiss him in the middle of her family.

Let first seek information about the whereabouts of the woman who will marry. Not sent people who like to lie and gossip, but rather send those reliable. Ask about his religion, his prayer perseverance, attention to fasting, embarrassment and hygiene, said his good-bad, habit of staying at home, and kindness to his parents.

Be polite when looked at before the contract and deliver a good speech after the ceremony. Investigate temperament and religious parents, as well as religious affairs and the behavior of his mother.

Ethics Woman When There's a man propose to her

A woman who wanted spoken, seyogiany ask the family confidant to inquire about the school of the applicant, religion, faith, prudence, and honesty in keeping promises. Asked the male relatives and the people who came to his house about perseverance in praying, praying pilgrims, and sincerity in the behavior and actions.

Affection for the man to be due to factors not because of his religion and his property, or to be due to his behavior and not because of its popularity. Intend to marry on the basis of qana'a and obey her husband's commands. That is what will strengthen and reinforce friendship love.

Ethics intercourse

The husband and wife, when they wanted to have intercourse, should wear fragrances. Soft-spoken, revealing love, kissing couples with intimacy, and embraced him with great love.

Starting intercourse with reading basmalah. Not seeing genitalia, because it will inherit blindness. Cover the bottom of the waist and not facing the Qibla.

Ethics Husband and Wife

The husband and wife is supposed to adorn socially and soft-spoken. Show mutual love and pleasure grow in tandem. Forgive each other mistakes and do not bring up the error, respectively.

Husband let wife maintain self-esteem and do not argue with him. Give him spending money without stinginess and always glorify his family. Familiarize promise of good things and enlarge jealousy towards his wife.

Ethics Wife To Husband

A wife must always maintain the attitude of shame to her husband, avoiding debate with him, and maintains obedience to him. Silent when her husband spoke, keeping himself when he was gone, and did not betray him in using his wealth.

Always wear fragrances, cleaning the mouth, and wearing clean clothes. Reveal the nature qana'a, devote all affection, and always decorated for her. Glorifying family and relatives. Looked existence by virtue and receiving treatment with gratitude. Appeared when close to her love and show excitement when looking at him.

To the husband and wife Ethics

Always maintain the Friday prayer and praying. Always wear clean clothes and brushing teeth. Do not wear fancy clothes, and not also the trash. Not lengthen the clothing on the basis of vanity, and not cut it short because I wanted to be considered poor. Do not look to other than married individuals. Do not spit when conversing. Not much sitting at the door of the house with its neighbors. Not much to talk to her friends about her and what is in his house.

Ethics Wife To Himself

Always familiarize yourself living in the house. Sitting in the house and not go out much. Always pay attention to the words of his neighbor and does not get along with them, except to the extent his needs only. Fun of her husband when seen. Keeping yourself when no husband by her side. Not out of the house; though out with stealth, searching for quiet places and that can keep your exit, do not even pretend to know the people who knew him.

His desire is to improve themselves, the household, and is always ready to welcome prayers and fasting. Attention to disgrace himself and think about his religion. Maintain silence and bowed his views. Wary of his Lord and always called him. Obey her husband and always encouraged him to seek lawful property and does not demand a lot of administration.

Always show embarrassment and avoid the nasty words. Be patient and grateful. Glorify himself. Taking into account the circumstances and his ability. And if one of her colleagues asked permission to enter, while the first home no husband, then she should not ask a lot of explanation and do not talk too much. In order to keep the jealousy between herself and her husband.

Ethics Knocking at the Door

Walking next to the wall and not facing the door. read rosary and tahmid before knocking on the door, and say hello. Do not pay attention to people who are in the house. After the greeting, must ask for permission. If allowed to go, but if not allowed, do not try to go back and wait. When asked by the host, do not say, "I," but rather say, "So and so."

Sitting on the edge of the road Ethics

Always lower his gaze. Helping people persecuted and menolng people who ask for help. Helping the poor and lead people astray. Always answer the greeting. Giving to the beggars and not turn away from them.

Always called on the good and forbid misguidance with full friendship and hospitality. If there are people who do misguidance, and then prevent the threat of a crackdown. Do not listen to gossip (as-sa'i) unless there is evidence. Not spying and not prejudiced against anyone else, except for the good stuff.

Social Etiquettes

When entering an assembly or congregation, say hello and let you sit in a place that has been available and not step over other people. Specialising greetings to the nearest ang.

When tested when assembled with the crowd, do not take part in the conversation and do not listen to their lies. Ignoring their bad words. Avoid meeting with them, except when there is a need.

Do not underestimate anyone, so she would be destroyed, for it could be he did not know the person better and more obedient to God than he. Do not regard them with reverence in worldly affairs. Because it's a small world on the side of God and everything in it was not worth. Not great regard worldly possessions on him, which will mendoorongnya to glorify lover world. Because by doing so, he becomes low in the sight of God.

Not sacrificing religion to obtain things that are worldly, that would make it a dwarf in front of them. Nothing against them, the effort did not bring hostility. Felt unable to endure the hostility, except as Allah 'Azza wa Jalla. Hostile to their bad deeds, but looked at them with a look of affection. Do not expect that they love, glorify, reveal a radiant face and praise himself. For if he demands it, just going to get a little.

If they have more confidence and authority handed to him, he certainly would not have survived. Do not expect that they would be good - in tow - Like a good attitude that is displayed in front of him. Do not try to get all of it. Do not be greedy towards anything that is in their hands, so that he will lose his religion. Do not be arrogant to them. When asked for help from one of them, then filled, then he is the brother who gave expediency. And if not met, do not condemn it. Because it would be a pretext to antagonize him. Not advise any of them, except after seeing the good response from them. Because if not, they would likely be hostile and not want to hear anything from him.

When seeing the goodness, glory and other commendable thing in them, give back the matter to Allah Almighty. Let praise Him and ask Him so that it makes them dull.

When seeing evil, ugly words, gossip or anything that hated on them, give it to God. Take refuge in Him from their crimes and ask His help to confront them. Do not denounce them, because there is no right to reproach him. In addition, his blame would also make them hostile, and will not treat anger. However, he must repent to Allah from the sins they have committed. And ask for His forgiveness. And let him be a loyal listener of them and become a deaf about their falsehood.

Ethics Children To Parents

Let the whole utterance always listen to them, respect them, carrying out their orders and fulfill their calling. Humble himself before them with great affection. Do not make them bored with the constant demand. Do good to them and carry out their orders, solely because of their goodness. Not looking at them with anger and not disobey their orders.

Ethics Parent To Child

Parents should always show kindness to their children. Do not overload them to do good beyond the limits of their capabilities. Do not force them when feeling bored. Does not prevent them to be obedient to God and do not abandon their education.

Ethics Friend

Always show excitement to them when they met. Starting the meeting with greetings. Be friendly, always giving spaciousness when sitting, and accompanied him when standing. Silent when he spoke and hate debate. Adorn greeting when recalled. Not give an answer before he finished speaking. Called him by the name he likes best.

Ethics Neighbors

Let start the encounter with the salutation. Not extend conversations with neighbors and not a lot to ask him. Visit him when sick and condolence when he stricken. Admonished by friendly when he made a mistake. Subjecting the eyes of the people relative. Help when asking for help. Not looking at her maid.

To the Employer Vice Ethics

Let not burden him with jobs beyond his limits. Be friendly to him when he was bored. Did not hit him. Not censure him, so being, being lancing. Forgive his mistake and accept his apology. If you have good food, ask him to eat together or give him to eat from the food.

Ethics Maid To the employer

Always obey. Advise him when they talk. Serving completely. Keeping his name in the presence of unrelated and be gentle to her son. Not treason in the use of his property.

Ethics Leader To His People

Let always be friendly, do not act hard, and think before giving the command. Not to be arrogant to certain people in order to prevent hostilities from them. Trying to aid the sympathy of all the people with fear them. Noting the various means of public service. Maintain vigilance in associate with science experts and give them the opportunity to flexibility, as well as to their friends and relatives. Be friendly in sentencing and continues to provide protection.

To the Rulers of the People Ethics

Let not trying to come to him. Do not ask for help, except for something which they are responsible. Maintaining an attitude afraid of him, even though he be friendly. Not applicable lancing him, even though he be gentle. Not a lot to ask, even though he always meets demand. Pray for the good of himself when he saw it. Not talking to him and trying not to look when she was not present.

Judge Ethics

Always get used to remain silent. Demonstrate authority and calm. Keep yourself from doing evil and beyond. Applies both to the widow and be careful to orphans. Unhurried when giving decisions and applies both to the opponent. Impartially to one of the two hostile. Advise the offender irregularities. Always seek refuge in Allah in setting the right decision.

Ethics Witness

Always maintain the mandate and leave betrayal. Be steadfast in giving testimony, to keep yourself from forgetting nature, and avoiding debates with the ruling.

Ethics jihad

Straightening intentions, being jealous God, and devote all abilities. Sacrificing the blood and lives and refuse the desire to return. Determined to elevate the word of Allah, and leave fraud in the distribution of the spoils of war (al-gulul). Pay off debt before going into battle. Always remembrance to Allah while fighting and in all circumstances.

Ethics Prisoner

A prisoner should not expect spaciousness of other than Allah. Not humiliating himself with adulterous to God. Do not despair of the mercy of God. Putting all hope in the face of God. Realizing that he was under the protection of God. Not fun to property which is not allowed God's enemy. Not to ask help from other than Allah.

Other set of ethics-ethics

Most wisdom among the experts had advised:

Including religious manners are friend or foe you encounter with the pleasure of a face, without degrading and not feel afraid of them. Being authoritative without being overbearing. Taking a middle ground in all of business. Do not look at you with a sense of amazement. Not many turned away. Do not depend on the strength of the congregation.

When you sit down, try to be upright. Be careful not to interweave your fingers, play the ring, gouged leftover food in between your teeth, put your hand into the nostril, and away flies from your face. Not much stretched and yawned. Make the assembly as a giver of tranquility and make your words as conditioning every heart. Listen to the words of wisdom from people who invited you to speak without revealing awe or humility alone. Turn away from jokes and fairy tales. Does not behave like women . Not being a person who does not have a sense of shame as well as a slave .

Always take the middle path in all your affairs . Not much wear kohl and not excessive in the use of cream . Do not make people feel tired in storytelling . Not provide information about your wealth to family and child - let alone to others . Because, if they looked a little bit , you will be looked down upon by them . But if they see a lot , you will not earn the good pleasure of them . Love them without having to use threats and be gentle to them without having to show weakness . If you're hostile , do not seek to undermine the respect of your enemies . Think first before you the reasons . Not often pointed out by hand. Not kneel . Start talking , when your anger has subsided . If you tested with proximity to the ruler , be careful and do not feel safe . Because he could only turn against you . hook it properly like you associate a child. Encourage him to talk about the things that you want . Be careful to not come to him when he was hanging out with the family , his children and relatives - even if they are just being a listener .

Beware of people who pretend to be friends with you , because he basically including enemies . Do not make your treasure is more valuable than your pride . Always on the lookout for not much spit in the middle of the crowd, because whoever is doing that , then he would be considered a woman . Not reveal something that would hurt your friend . Because, if he saw him , he would respond with hostility . Do not joke with the clever , because he will feel envy you . Do not joke with people dumb , because he would be presumptuous to you . Can actually eliminate the bantering reverent attitude , dropping position , eliminating self-esteem , causing grief , eliminating the sweetness of love , bore a disgrace to Islamic jurists , causing impudence of dopes , lethal liver , causing far from God , bore reproach , weaken the determination, make mind became dark , mind-numbing , multiply sin and disgrace appeared .

Closing ....

May Allah always guide us all with the people who were his instructions, taking care of us all with the people who nurtured him, be our protector all along the people who protected him, bless whatever is given to him and keep us of the crimes set forth. Therefore, there is no denying anything he set forth, no power to exalt the people who despised him and no power of shame those who protected him.

Glorified and Exalted Lord. We ask Him for forgiveness and repent. We ask Him to always devote most important blessings to His servant elected, her family and friends.

Praise be to Allah, the Lord of hosts. And may God continue to bestow blessings and greetings of peace to our master, the Prophet Muhammad, who did not know to read and write. Ameen.

 Abahe Haqy.